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Apr 27, 2019 00:38:11

Meeting Girls

by @phaidenbauer PATRON | 259 words | 314🔥 | 318💌

Philipp Haidenbauer

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Ist just half past midnight now. Time for another deep insight into my life. Sorry.

I am turning 24 next month. And I'm sitting here alone in an apartment for two. Single. Virgin.

Nothing special? I don't know. If been a single my whole life. I don't miss anything until I see couples on the streets, in movies...

I stopped asking the question why. It is just how it is. Paramedic just seems like it isn't as sexy as a fireman. I have cut my expectations down to a minimum.

I don't give a f*ck since visiting a sauna for the first time. The thing that matters to me is the person behind the eyes.

Everybody can dress up in brands and put makeup on, but you can't hide your personality behind it.

Not in front of me. There is a reason the eyes are called the "windows to the soul". If seen many people in my daily and paramedic life.

I know what's going on behind them in a glimpse of a second.

Only one situation always gets me. Girls I'm interested in. I don't know what I'm doing wrong, but there is definitely something I'm doing wrong.

Is it normal these days that small Facebook Chats and Small Talks are normal? Do Girls approach guys? Or is it the same as long ago, where the guy has to approach the girl?

I'm not shy talking to girls, only talking to girls I might want to know more about them.

Maybe I should try Barney Stinson's "nacked Man". :)

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    @phaidenbauer don't give up! Go out more, get more uncomfortable, and more importantly, have genuine fun wherever you go :) The more you experience, the easier it gets. Just don't overthink things.

    Basile Samel avatar Basile Samel | Apr 27, 2019 10:45:23
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      @phaidenbauer @basilesamel Here's a tip I heard from the great radio personality Tom Leykis. Go to wherever the "rich" part of town is for your area. For me, it would be the areas of Paradise Valley and Scottsdale in Arizona. Find banks with walk-up ATM's or ones that are just inside the door. Look for the trash bins that are near the ATMs. Rummage around and snag a bunch of ATM receipts. Find ones with large balances. Keep a couple of these crumpled up in your pocket when you are planning to go out and meet girls. Rather than make it awkward by asking for her number, tell her you'll give her YOUR number. You pull out the crumpled ATM receipt that looks like a scrap piece of paper and write your number on it and give it to her. Something tells me she will be calling you in short order. :)

      Brandon Wilson avatar Brandon Wilson | Apr 27, 2019 08:37:12
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      @basilesamel @brandonwilson Thanks for your responses. Sounds like a great idea Brandon, but we don't have receipts at our ATM's in Austria :)

      Philipp Haidenbauer avatar Philipp Haidenbauer | Apr 27, 2019 22:04:30
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      @phaidenbauer @basilesamel That is interesting. Ok well back to the drawing board.

      Brandon Wilson avatar Brandon Wilson | Apr 27, 2019 13:34:57
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